The Power of Letting Go: How to drop everything that's holding you back

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In simple terms, it means you can give a different meaning to what happened, or change the narrative to see how it helped you improve, or how it made you stronger. Suppression and repression: they are two sides of the same coin, with suppression being conscious and repression being unconscious. Denial and projection of our bad feelings into others are both examples It’s somewhat surprising that an author who talks about accepting negative emotions also says we should focus on positives, which is useful only up to a certain point and it’s an otherwise pop-psychology myth. Let go of your need to be attached to things. Things come and go. Let go of your attachment to things and focus on the experiences you have. The only thing that becomes obvious to me here is that the “obvious conclusions” are simply the author’s very own thoughts. 3. Psychic, Lies &“Scientific Proof”

Let go of your fear of the future. The future is uncertain, but that doesn't mean it's going to be bad. Let go of your fear and trust that everything will work out. We’ve all had an ex that we can’t get out of our minds. A harmful friendship we hold on to even though it exhausts us. Or even a family member who is toxic . Why can’t we learn how to let go of someone , even when we know they’re not good for us? He overgeneralizes, confuses correlation with causation, and commits the ultimate sin for anyone who aspires to the title of a scientist: he accepts (and peddles) as “true” what has not been proven to be true.

to understand your shadow, look at the people who annoy you. What annoys you about them is something you have suppressed in yourself and projected onto them. Letting go of someone you love doesn’t mean you have to negate the truth, but don’t let it influence your path . It is human nature to point the finger at someone else or a past incident instead of ourselves. This is why you blame your significant other at the end of a relationship or another person for something terrible that happened to you. Yet even when the facts are terrible or heartbreaking, you must let go of the past . Instead, use your experiences as a tool to push you to learn and grow so you can create a healthy relationship with someone else. 5. Embrace the “F” word I noticed that many of the people I met were trying to market themselves (to me) but didn't know how. Having become a partner, I co-founded a new firm and began writing books. The first was 'How To Be Headhunted'. Another point he emphasizes is that you as a person is not a fixed entity. There is no quality about you that is fixed - you are not a nice person, a selfish person, a dependable person etc. No one is always nice. No one is always selfish. No one is always angry. No one is always kind. Let go of your need to control everything. You can't control everything that happens in life, so don't try. Let go and trust that things will work out the way they are supposed to.

The book is useless and misleading to anyone who wants to learn about meditation. 2 stars, because some exercises were indeed interesting and usable with modifications and sometimes I did recognize statements of an obviously quite experienced meditator - but not one who understands why and how it works. And also not one who can teach it well. Escape: getting ourselves too busy—or high—to think about it, It includes drugs, alcohol, risk-seeking, and workaholismThe author seems to suggest that we all have a bigger drive to forgive and love but to reach there… We must let go first. I find this stuff offensive to the scientific profession and reminisce about the law of attraction as seen in even more dubious books such as “The Secret” and “ The Science of Getting Rich“. 2. Claims of “Tests” Where There Were None Learning how to let go of someone you love is the only way you can be the architect of your own life. It’s also one of the most challenging things you’ll ever have to do. Once you overcome that fear , you’ll feel free. You’ll feel relieved. You’ll know that you have the inner strength to conquer anything. And you can begin to forge your own path to fulfillment. How to let go of someone

people who accept themselves as they are do not feel the need to hide qualities which some people may not like. there are many reasons why people could disagree with you and still be rational : their values might be different from yours, you and they could have different assumptions,they might have had a different experience to you, they might have information that you don't have or that you have chosen to ignore. The stress and anger caused by our unpleasant feelings cannot be coped with through escapism or suppression. Let go of your expectations. When you have expectations, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. Instead, focus on the present moment and what you can control.David Hawkins prominently features the titles “MD” and “Ph.D.” ( authority principle of influence, anyone?) next to his name.